Let Them Fly

Time changes, and people change too. When I was studying for my Master of Arts, even going to the market in the evening felt like a big deal. My father would always send my mother or my younger sister with me to ensure my safety. That was his way of protecting me, and I completely understood and trusted his judgment at that time.

Today, things are different. My daughter is an undergraduate student, and she traveled to Spain, Europe, all by herself. She visited her friend and explored a new country. When she told me she was walking alone at night, my heart felt scared. But at the same time, I trusted God and found the courage to let her grow.

Many people around me felt it was too dangerous. They questioned our decision. But I asked myself, should fear stop our children from living their lives? If danger exists everywhere, should we stop going out? Should we stop walking on the road?

As parents, our role is to guide our children, teach them safety, and support them. But should we control every step they take? Or should we give them the freedom to learn, explore, and become strong on their own?

If we protect them too much, are we helping them, or holding them back? If we don’t trust them, how will they learn confidence? If we don’t let them face the world, how will they grow?

Yes, safety is important. But so is independence.

So, instead of cutting their wings, why not teach them how to fly? Why not let them learn by trying on their own? Why not trust them to make good decisions? Why not allow them to explore the world and find their own path?

Because one day, they will have to walk alone. The question is, will they be ready? ❤️