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The words we speak become the seeds we plant, and our lives grow from them. I believe words are very powerful. They are not just sounds we speak; they carry meaning and energy. When we label someone with a word, we are planting a seed in their mind. Over time, that seed can grow and influence how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. When we use unkind or negative words like “crazy,” “lazy,” or “messy,” I believe those words slowly take root inside the person. Even if we say t

As we prepare to say goodbye to 2025, I want to take a moment to reflect on the year and express my heartfelt gratitude. This year has been filled with love, joy, peace and countless blessings, and I feel so blessed to have incredible people in my life. To my Almighty God Jesus Christ, my loving husband, my wonderful kids, my extended family in India, and my dear friends across America and around the world, thank you for being my support system and bringing happiness into my

"Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world." – Nelson Mandela I worked as a teacher and educator for several years, and during this time, I gained much more than I ever expected. Teaching is often seen as a profession where educators impart knowledge to students, but in reality, it’s a two-way street. I learned just as much from my students, their families, and my experiences as they learned from me. Today, I want to share some of the valuabl

"Children are the world's most valuable resource and its best hope for the future." – John F. Kennedy As a mother and teacher, I truly believe children are the most valuable resources and assets. They hold the key to a brighter future. But how can we help them reach their full potential? First, we should encourage their unique talents and interests. Every child is different, and helping them discover what they love builds their confidence and joy. Whether it’s through art, mu

A successful relationship isn’t about having compatibility, but it's about having acceptability, adaptability, and adding value to your partner. Have you ever wondered what makes a relationship truly successful? Is it having lots in common with your partner? Or is there something else that really matters?  Last night, my husband and I had dinner with some close friends. We talked about many things, but one topic really made me think: the differences between partners. Some peo

Happiness is something we all desire, and it often comes from the simple yet meaningful aspects of life. For me, there are a few key elements that truly bring happiness into my world. 1. Healthy Relationships First and foremost, having healthy relationships is so important. Surrounding myself with family and friends who genuinely care about me makes me feel loved and supported. Practicing unconditional love and forgiveness, spending time with family and friends, sharing laugh

Parenting is the art of guiding with love, teaching with patience, and building a relationship that lasts a lifetime. Love is an act, and it's all about caring, generosity, and support. As parents, loving our children means guiding, protecting, and encouraging them to grow into confident individuals. It's important to create a safe and accepting environment where kids feel free to express themselves without fear of judgment. Mistakes and flaws are part of being human, and whe

When I was a kid, I remember how much I struggled with change. Some of my friends moved to another city, and I would feel so emotional that I often cried. I recall losing my grandfather, and the sadness stayed with me for months. Later in life, after getting married, I missed my parents and siblings terribly, and there were many moments when tears would roll down my cheeks. Change has never been easy for me, and I know I’m not alone in feeling this way.   But why is change so

Life's lessons shape our path, reminding us to embrace change, love/relationships, forgive, and persevere. Invest in people, pursue passion, and trust the beauty of letting go. Life is an incredible journey, filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, and countless opportunities for growth and learning. Throughout my own unique journey, I've come to realize that six invaluable lessons have shaped my perspective and approach to life. These lessons have become the guiding prin

Compete not with others, but with the you of yesterday; growth blooms in self-reflection. Do you ever feel like you’re in competition with someone? I believe the best competition is with your old self, not with others. Why? Because when you focus on improving yourself, you grow without the stress of rivalry. Some people think rivals are helpful. In his book The Infinite Game , Simon Sinek talks about “worthy rivals.” These are people who are better at certain things and can t

Today, I want to discuss a few important topics: relationships, a strong personality, trust the process, and changing beliefs. Relationships Some people keep changing relationships because they’re looking for the perfect one. But the truth is, no one is perfect. The key to a happy relationship is accepting people for who they are and not expecting them to be flawless. We won’t find a perfect friend, roommate, partner, or spouse because everyone has flaws. If we let go of expe

True worth isn't in what we own and accomplish, but in how we love and uplift others. Have you ever wondered how we judge ourselves and others? Is it by income, job titles, achievements, or the things we own? I believe many of us often fall into the trap of measuring worth through material possessions or achievements. But is this really the right way to see someone’s value?    So, how should we evaluate ourselves and others?   Think about the people we admire the most. Why do

How Did God Help Me? Have you ever wondered how believing in God can make a difference in your life? Let me share my story with you. I come from a Hindu family, and my parents always believed in Hindu Gods, especially Lord Krishna. They taught me to trust in God and follow spiritual teachings. As an obedient child, I listened to them, but I didn’t fully understand the power of faith until a few years ago. Here’s how God has helped me in my journey. How Does God Give Us Hope?

True worth lies not in grades or wealth, but in the impact we make and the lives we touch. Have you ever wondered what success truly means? Is it the grades we get in school, the reputation of the college we attend, or the size of our house? Many of us grow up believing these things define our worth. But is that really all there is to life? There’s a saying about a frog living in a water well. For the frog, that well is its entire world. Why? Because it hasn’t seen anything b

Parenting is not about perfection; it's about balance. Listening to your child's perspective can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth. Today, a friend asked me, "How do you handle conflicts with your kids when they talk back?" This question made me reflect on my journey from Indian parenting to something closer to American parenting.   Growing up in India, we were taught to be obedient and respectful. Talking back was seen as rude, and parents made most decisions

Leadership is not about authority; it's about inspiring and uplifting others to reach their potential. Have you ever wondered what leadership truly means? Is it about holding a fancy title or being the boss who gives orders? Or is there something deeper, something more meaningful?  Leadership is often misunderstood. Some people think it’s all about being in charge or controlling others. But is that really what makes someone a great leader? Let’s look at how some inspiring fig

I consider myself a spiritual person, deeply connected to my roots, as I was raised in a Hindu family. The values and teachings of Hinduism have shaped my character, and I hold immense respect for this religion. One of the greatest sources of wisdom in my life has been the Bhagavad Gita, which I regard as a guide to living a meaningful life. From my parents, I have also learned invaluable lessons about kindness, humility, generosity and love, which continue to guide me every

Hi Everyone, We all face challenges, but remember, it’s important to show love, kindness, compassion, forgiveness, and gratitude. Maybe you’ve been the first to lend a helping hand to someone who needed it.   Maybe you’ve been the first to brighten someone’s day with a warm smile.   Maybe you’ve been the first to truly understand someone’s struggles and offer support.   Maybe you’ve been the first to forgive someone’s mistake and give them a second chance.   Maybe you’ve been

Today, I came across some heartbreaking news that shook me to the core. An Air India Boeing 787-8 Dreamliner, with 242 people onboard, tragically crashed shortly after take-off from Ahmedabad airport. This devastating incident stands as one of the worst aviation disasters in India’s history. My heart aches for the families who have lost their loved ones in this tragedy. It’s a painful reminder of how temporary and unpredictable life truly is.   We often get so caught up in th

"Curiosity sparks the flame of innovation, lighting the path to endless possibilities. In the quest for knowledge, curiosity is the compass that guides us forward." People often say, "Necessity is the mother of invention." While this is true, I firmly believe that curiosity is the driving force behind every great discovery and invention. Without curiosity, even necessity cannot lead to innovation. Curiosity sparks questions, fuels exploration, and opens doors to endless poss