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Rita stepped into the open field, letting the wind touch her face. Her mind felt heavy, but the silence around her felt gentle, as if the earth itself was giving her space to heal. “Why do I feel like this all the time?” she asked herself softly. “I try to be kind. I wish good for everyone. I don’t hurt anyone… so why does life keep hurting me?” She placed her hand on her chest and whispered, “Am I weak?” Then she answered herself gently, “No. I am tired.” For a long time, Ri

The words we speak become the seeds we plant, and our lives grow from them. I believe words are very powerful. They are not just sounds we speak; they carry meaning and energy. When we label someone with a word, we are planting a seed in their mind. Over time, that seed can grow and influence how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. When we use unkind or negative words like “crazy,” “lazy,” or “messy,” I believe those words slowly take root inside the person. Even if we say t

Trauma can occur for many different reasons. Sometimes it may result from a severe accident, a toxic workplace, bullying, or other external causes. Healing from trauma is a personal journey, and every person is different. What helps one person heal may not work for someone else. There is no single path that fits everyone. However, one thing is common in every healing journey: hope. Hope gives strength to move forward. People who stay connected to God often heal faster because

Peace is something we practice within our hearts and give to others, one act of love at a time. Can we imagine a world where peace truly prevails, where people live with love, respect, and kindness? Many of us dream of peace, yet it feels very hard to achieve everywhere. Why is that? For a long time, I looked for love and peace in the outside world. I hoped that outside people, places, or situations would give it to me, but many times I felt disappointed. Then something chang

Imagine a world where people lifted each other up instead of tearing each other down. A world filled with love, peace, understanding, and compassion. Over the years, I dedicated myself to learning about different religions and the teachings of remarkable figures like Lord Krishna, Lord Buddha, and Lord Jesus Christ. Each of them has left a profound impact on my life, and I believe their wisdom can guide us all toward a better world. Lord Krishna taught me the importance of do

Life is not a race; it’s a journey. And the most important part of that journey is not just reaching the destination but enjoying the ride with the people who matter most. Rita had always dreamed of being a teacher. From a young age, she loved the idea of helping others learn and grow. After years of hard work and dedication, she finally achieved her dream. She became a teacher and loved her job. But life took an unexpected turn when she got married and moved to a new country

Today, my daughter returned to college after spending three wonderful weeks at home during winter break. These past few weeks have been some of the most joyful moments of my life, surrounded by family and cherishing every moment together. As she was preparing to leave, I shared two pieces of advice that I hoped would guide her on her journey: to let go and let God take the lead, and to always meet people where they are. Letting go is a powerful act, one I wish I had embraced

As we prepare to say goodbye to 2025, I want to take a moment to reflect on the year and express my heartfelt gratitude. This year has been filled with love, joy, peace and countless blessings, and I feel so blessed to have incredible people in my life. To my Almighty God Jesus Christ, my loving husband, my wonderful kids, my extended family in India, and my dear friends across America and around the world, thank you for being my support system and bringing happiness into my

Accidents happen, and we may never fully understand why. Some people face tough times even when they’ve done good deeds. But we are all here on this planet for a purpose, so let’s make the most of it! Rita's life was like a book filled with unexpected twists and turns, yet she always managed to find her way back to hope and gratitude. When Rita was only four years old, a playful day turned into a nightmare. She had been running around on the rooftop of her home, her tiny feet

Nobody is truly wrong, and nobody is completely right.   It all depends on how we see things and the perspective we hold.   What seems bad to one person might seem good to another. Rita's journey is a testament to the strength and adaptability of immigrants. Her story highlights the challenges of embracing a new culture while balancing the values of her upbringing. Rita’s life took a dramatic turn when she moved to America with her husband, Rohan, leaving behind her conservat

"Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world." – Nelson Mandela I worked as a teacher and educator for several years, and during this time, I gained much more than I ever expected. Teaching is often seen as a profession where educators impart knowledge to students, but in reality, it’s a two-way street. I learned just as much from my students, their families, and my experiences as they learned from me. Today, I want to share some of the valuabl

"Children are the world's most valuable resource and its best hope for the future." – John F. Kennedy As a mother and teacher, I truly believe children are the most valuable resources and assets. They hold the key to a brighter future. But how can we help them reach their full potential? First, we should encourage their unique talents and interests. Every child is different, and helping them discover what they love builds their confidence and joy. Whether it’s through art, mu

A successful relationship isn’t about having compatibility, but it's about having acceptability, adaptability, and adding value to your partner. Have you ever wondered what makes a relationship truly successful? Is it having lots in common with your partner? Or is there something else that really matters?  Last night, my husband and I had dinner with some close friends. We talked about many things, but one topic really made me think: the differences between partners. Some peo

Happiness is something we all desire, and it often comes from the simple yet meaningful aspects of life. For me, there are a few key elements that truly bring happiness into my world. 1. Healthy Relationships First and foremost, having healthy relationships is so important. Surrounding myself with family and friends who genuinely care about me makes me feel loved and supported. Practicing unconditional love and forgiveness, spending time with family and friends, sharing laugh

Parenting is the art of guiding with love, teaching with patience, and building a relationship that lasts a lifetime. Love is an act, and it's all about caring, generosity, and support. As parents, loving our children means guiding, protecting, and encouraging them to grow into confident individuals. It's important to create a safe and accepting environment where kids feel free to express themselves without fear of judgment. Mistakes and flaws are part of being human, and whe

When I was a kid, I remember how much I struggled with change. Some of my friends moved to another city, and I would feel so emotional that I often cried. I recall losing my grandfather, and the sadness stayed with me for months. Later in life, after getting married, I missed my parents and siblings terribly, and there were many moments when tears would roll down my cheeks. Change has never been easy for me, and I know I’m not alone in feeling this way.   But why is change so

Diwali shines brightest when kindness lights the way. Ana was a teenage girl who lived with her loving parents. She was in high school and was known for being polite, kind, and friendly to everyone around her. It was October, and her family was excitedly preparing for Diwali, the festival of lights. The house was buzzing with activity as they cleaned every corner, decorated the rooms with vibrant colors, and lit beautiful diyas inside and outside their home. As Ana helped her

If you have good intentions and do your best to help others, you will ultimately achieve positive outcomes! I have lived in both joint and nuclear families, and I have had the privilege of knowing many relatives. I have worked in various workplaces and made friends from diverse backgrounds. Through these experiences, I have learned that conflicts and difficult conversations are an unavoidable part of life. It is important for all of us to learn how to face such situations wit

Let go of grudges, embrace love and kindness, and find peace within yourself. Have you ever felt upset with someone, like your relatives, coworkers, or someone else? It’s common to hold grudges, but have you ever wondered why people act the way they do? Most of the time, people treat others based on their own knowledge, emotions, and understanding. Why do some people treat us poorly? Often, it’s because they are hurting, emotionally struggling, or unaware and ignorant of how

Life's lessons shape our path, reminding us to embrace change, love/relationships, forgive, and persevere. Invest in people, pursue passion, and trust the beauty of letting go. Life is an incredible journey, filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, and countless opportunities for growth and learning. Throughout my own unique journey, I've come to realize that six invaluable lessons have shaped my perspective and approach to life. These lessons have become the guiding prin

"Finite players play within boundaries; infinite players play with boundaries." – James P. Carse, Once, there were two friends, Rita and Gita. Rita was an average student, while Gita was a top achiever in school. One day, during lunch in their final year of high school, they started talking about their dreams. Rita asked, "Gita, what do you want to be when you grow up?" Gita smiled and said, "I want to be an engineer. What about you, Rita?" Rita replied thoughtfully, "I’ve al

Compete not with others, but with the you of yesterday; growth blooms in self-reflection. Do you ever feel like you’re in competition with someone? I believe the best competition is with your old self, not with others. Why? Because when you focus on improving yourself, you grow without the stress of rivalry. Some people think rivals are helpful. In his book The Infinite Game , Simon Sinek talks about “worthy rivals.” These are people who are better at certain things and can t

Today, I want to discuss a few important topics: relationships, a strong personality, trust the process, and changing beliefs. Relationships Some people keep changing relationships because they’re looking for the perfect one. But the truth is, no one is perfect. The key to a happy relationship is accepting people for who they are and not expecting them to be flawless. We won’t find a perfect friend, roommate, partner, or spouse because everyone has flaws. If we let go of expe

True worth isn't in what we own and accomplish, but in how we love and uplift others. Have you ever wondered how we judge ourselves and others? Is it by income, job titles, achievements, or the things we own? I believe many of us often fall into the trap of measuring worth through material possessions or achievements. But is this really the right way to see someone’s value?    So, how should we evaluate ourselves and others?   Think about the people we admire the most. Why do